Pain With Sex

Pain with sex can stem from stress, trauma, hormonal changes, STIs, chronic conditions & more. We'll work together to identify the cause and get treatment that feels comfortable for you.

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Pain during sex - what's the deal?

Experiencing pain during sexual intercourse, which is officially known as dyspareunia, can feel sharp, burning, or similar to menstrual cramps. Women may report feeling an internal bumping sensation, as if something is being hit deep inside the pelvis. Some woman may also report pain with tampon use. Dyspareunia can have various causes, which vary by age group, a visit with a provider at Tia can help to identify the cause.

When to see a doctor about pain during sex

Experiencing occasional discomfort during sex is

Did you know?

According to the american academy of family physicians (AAFP) It affects approximately 10% to 20% of U.S. women at some point in their lifetime.

not uncommon. Inadequate natural lubrication can sometimes be the culprit, occurring at various points in your menstrual cycle or after menopause. These sporadic episodes of painful intercourse usually do not necessitate a doctor's visit, especially if you can manage the issue with readily available over-the-counter solutions like lubricants. However, when painful intercourse becomes a chronic issue, you may encounter persistent symptoms, including:

  • Discomfort or pain during any form of vaginal penetration, including the use of tampons.
  • Pain during more intense intercourse, particularly with deep penetration.
  • Aching or burning sensations.
  • Bleeding, discomfort, or pain following intercourse.
  • Urinary problems, such as a sense of urgency or burning pain during urination.
  • Worsening pain during intercourse over time.

Even if your discomfort is relatively minor, it might be time to consult a specialist if it causes you to hesitate about engaging in sexual activity or begins to impact your relationship.

What to expect during your Tia appointment

This appointment can be faciliated both virtually or in clinic. Your provider will take a thorough medical and medication history focusing on symptoms to identify possible causes or triggers. This evaluation may include a physical exam with a pelvic exam to identify the exact location of pain and visual looks for any clues as to the cause.

Potential treatment plans for painful sex

Some causes of pain with sex do not require treatment. Treatment depends on the cause and may include:

  • Perscription treatment of any bacterial, yeast or sexually transmitted infections
  • Lubrication recommendations
  • Perscription topical hormone creams
  • Pelvic floor physical therapy referral
  • Counseling or therapy referral
  • Counseling on sexual practices that can decrease pain

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